I’ve been chosen by 229 women.

Not once did I choose myself.

Getting women was never the problem. Being wanted was easy. Staying was impossible.

The closer she got, the more I pulled away. I’d go quiet. Go cold. Find something wrong with her. Anything but let her actually know me.

I called it standards. I called it peace.

It was fear.

The pattern was never them. It was me.

So I stopped running and did the work. Healed the part of me that runs. Became secure in who I am. Chose myself — for the first time in my life.

Not to get more women. To finally be able to keep one.

That’s 229 Lessons. Every lesson I teach is one I paid for.

I teach men to be secure in who they are, heal the part of them that runs, so they stop leaving the women who love them and show up as the man who stays.

If that sounds like you — your first 1:1 is free.